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Adulting 101 Checklist: 60 essential life skills
The stuff school skipped — money, home, health, career, and life admin — in one printable checklist. Bookmark it, share it, or tick off one item a week and you'll be dangerously competent by next year.
Money & finance
The stuff that stops you from waking up at 3 a.m. worrying about overdraft fees.
- Open a checking and a high-yield savings account at different banks.
- Build a starter emergency fund of $1,000, then work toward 3 months of expenses.
- Set up automatic transfers to savings on payday.
- Track every dollar for one month to see where it actually goes.
- Understand your paycheck: gross vs. net, federal, state, FICA, 401(k).
- Check your credit report free at annualcreditreport.com.
- Get one credit card, pay it off in full every month.
- File your taxes on time — even if you can't pay.
- Contribute at least enough to your 401(k) to get the full employer match.
- Open a Roth IRA and set up $50/month auto-invest into an index fund.
- Know the difference between a debit card, credit card, and BNPL.
- Read every bill for errors before paying it.
Home & living
Renting, cooking, cleaning, and not accidentally flooding your apartment.
- Read a lease front to back before signing — every clause matters.
- Document apartment condition with photos on move-in day.
- Get renter's insurance (usually $10–15/month).
- Know how to shut off the water main in an emergency.
- Learn to unclog a drain, reset a breaker, and change a lightbulb safely.
- Cook 5 cheap meals from scratch — pasta, stir fry, eggs, beans and rice, sheet-pan chicken.
- Do laundry without shrinking anything — read the tag.
- Set a weekly cleaning routine (kitchen, bathroom, floors, sheets).
- Keep a basic toolkit: screwdriver, hammer, tape measure, level, pliers.
- Build a starter pantry so you're never stuck ordering DoorDash.
- Change your smoke-detector batteries every year.
- Set up utilities and internet in your own name.
Health & wellness
Doctors, meds, sleep, therapy — the boring stuff that keeps you alive.
- Find a primary care doctor and book an annual physical.
- Find a dentist and go twice a year.
- Know your health insurance: deductible, copay, out-of-pocket max, in-network.
- Keep a running list of your prescriptions, dosages, and allergies.
- Learn basic first aid and CPR.
- Sleep 7–9 hours. Non-negotiable.
- Move your body 3x a week — walking counts.
- Get therapy before you think you need it.
- Drink water before coffee in the morning.
- Have a doctor you can text for questions, or use a telehealth service.
- Know when to go to urgent care vs. the ER.
- Keep an updated list of emergency contacts in your phone under "ICE".
Career & work
Getting hired, getting paid what you're worth, and not getting stuck.
- Have a one-page resume, updated quarterly.
- Have a LinkedIn profile with a real headshot and a clear headline.
- Practice answering "tell me about yourself" out loud.
- Negotiate every job offer — always ask for more.
- Understand your benefits: PTO, 401(k), health insurance, HSA, stock.
- Track your wins monthly for reviews and future resumes.
- Send a thank-you email within 24 hours of every interview.
- Learn to write a clear professional email in under 5 sentences.
- Know your company's remote/PTO policy in writing before you need it.
- Build a "quit fund" of 3 months' expenses — leverage matters.
- Say no to meetings that could be emails.
- Keep a list of 5 people you'd call for a job reference.
Life admin & relationships
The paperwork, boundaries, and social skills nobody teaches you.
- Keep your ID, passport, Social Security card, and birth certificate in one safe spot.
- Register to vote and know your polling place.
- Set up a password manager and use unique passwords.
- Turn on 2-factor auth on email, bank, and social accounts.
- Back up your phone and laptop automatically.
- Learn to say no without a long explanation.
- Send a birthday text to the people who matter.
- Write a short will and pick a healthcare proxy — even at 25.
- RSVP to invitations within 48 hours.
- Own one interview-ready outfit and one funeral-ready outfit.
- Learn how to change a tire, jump a car, and check your oil.
- Practice one hard conversation this month you've been avoiding.
Turn this into a plan
Don't try to do all 60 at once. Pick 3 items this week, add them to your planner, and keep going. In a year, you're a completely different adult.